Tuesday, November 3, 2009

My 6 year old daughter wants hair extentions?

I have a daughter who is mixed with Dominican/Putero Rican on her father's side and white on mine, she has really, really curly hair but it is soft like my hair and not heavy enough for the curls to drop so I have to keep it short because if I don't it looks like she stuck her finger in the outlet. God Bless her she is beautiful, but she is in the 2nd grade and sees all of her friends with long hair and wants extensions. I don't know anything other than that it can either be sewn in or braided in, which is better? I have heard it can damage the hair and I don't want that either! Is there any suggestions on what I can do, use, or a method that will be best for the health of her hair?



My 6 year old daughter wants hair extentions?

If you can be patient and let the hair grow past the point it looks fizzy, it'll become heavy enough. Thing is, I don't know how long that'll be...The idea of a six year old wanting hair extensions is kind of mess up. It's similar to her asking for birth control pills. A six year old shouldn't be worried about what her hair looks like. She should be enjoying her Barbie Dolls and Scooby Doo.



My 6 year old daughter wants hair extentions?

You can get her clip-on extensions. They're not damaging at all.



My 6 year old daughter wants hair extentions?

you should not put extensions in your daughters hair her hair is too young and so is she, this will damage her hair a lot she is only six sooo i would just take her to a stylist and see what they recommend but please dont do this to your child.



My 6 year old daughter wants hair extentions?

she is way too young for extensions. Real ones could very well damage her hair.



Every kid goes through stages where they dislike their looks, is a curly-haired kid supposed to get chemical straightening? Or a perm for straight haired kids?



Maybe you can try some of the clip-in hair just to see what it's like, but for the love of God do not put actual extensions in her hair.



My 6 year old daughter wants hair extentions?

Show your daughter someone who is getting extensions....they hurt like hell.



Let her hair grow. There are products that can help manage that electricuted look. Some work extremely well on curly curly hair especially if the hair is soft.



My 6 year old daughter wants hair extentions?

I would contact a local REPUTABLE stylist, take her in, and see what options they can offer. There may be an alternative that would be safer and still please her. I know that has to be tough on her especially these days. Just support her and don't jump in to anything too quickly.



My 6 year old daughter wants hair extentions?

When I first saw this question I thought it was a joke. How the hell does a 6 year old even know what hair extensions are? Tell her to wait 10 years. Just explain to her she does not have that kind of hair.



My wife gets extensions for fullness, and they are EXTREMELY expensive (about $250 every 6 weeks) and that's just half the head. What they do is use real human hair and glue it with a strong bond to the person's natural hair. You can see that they are extensions if she doesn't part it just right, and not only that, but it is very damaging to the hair, especially when they are being taken out. Sewn in and braided in just looks gross.



Taking care of them is more than a 6 year old can handle. You can only use a special brush, it's easy to fidget with them, and you can't use regular shampoo and conditioner on them or you will weaken the bond. Instead, you have to spend about $50 on special bottles of shampoo and conditioner made specially for extensions. If you touch them too much, the bond also weakens and your hair is out within a couple of weeks.



Bottom line, she's WAY TOO YOUNG to be even thinking about altering her appearance like that. I think it's quite sad, really, that a 6 yr old is already fretting over the way her hair looks and even sadder that you are encouraging it.



And yes, by even considering it, you are encouraging it. If it's only ponytails you're worried about, go to the drug store and get those little clip in rings of hair.



My 6 year old daughter wants hair extentions?

Shes only six . she should learn to love her hair. Hair extensions wont do her hair any good as it will damage it! I wanted hair extentions but i could'nt and i learned to like my hair , or go to a hair dressers and see what they think. Hope i helped xx good luck



My 6 year old daughter wants hair extentions?

Can you do short corn rows with her hair? It is natural and will not damage her hair. Both my parents were white but I had very similar hair to your daughter. My stepmother, who is black, always put my hair in cornrows (of course this was back in the 70s). It looked great and everyone thought I was cool. It takes a lot of work though.



My 6 year old daughter wants hair extentions?

Wow, what a coincidence! I just heard this story: My anunt's friend's daughter wanted her hair dyed(she's 4). And her father did it. I think it's a big mistake. U should get her those clip-extensions, they r like hair pins. U can get them off whenever u want, and it doesn't damage hair. Of course, u should consult the hair-dresser on how u pin them and don't pull hair. I think it's a good solution because she is only 6, and probably she will change her opinion in a week.



Big kiss for u and your daughter! Enjoy! hope I helped!



xoxo



My 6 year old daughter wants hair extentions?

You are the parent, stick to your guns and tell her NO! You are right, keep telling her she is beautiful inside and out, and as she gets older she will realize that she was created the way she was for a reason. Her uniqueness will become an asset and she will see this.... Six years old is WAYYY toooooo young to start worrying about your appeal and trying to change the way you look... things will only get worse if you give in, it will confirm her fears that she is right about her "odd" looks. You are her biggest role model. Try to keep her focus on more important things, like school work and creativity, and if she doesn't like it, tough... sorry, but because you love her so much, you should not allow this or promote this unhealthy behavior so young.



My 6 year old daughter wants hair extentions?

Oh please, please please please do not put extentions in your babies hair!!!



My daughter has shoulder length hair, and my hair is long past my shoulders, she is 6 and she wanted extentions in hair a little while ago too.



I think that it will eventually make her feel like her real hair is not good enough, and she will always have a complex about her appearance, and that would be a shame.



Beautiful little girls need to know that they are just that, and there is nothing in the world synthetic that they need to do to enhance thier beauty.



I know they see it on t.v., and I know that these are what they look up to, but you are who she looks up to more, and set an example that she does not need weave to be beautiful.



My 6 year old daughter wants hair extentions?

At 6 years old, a girl should not even be considering body image or anything related. If she is getting teased, then this is different, but unless she is having a traumatic experience because she doesnt have long hair, then i cant believe that you'd even be considering it.



Shes a child. There shouldnt be an emphasised placed on looks. You need to encourage her to focus on playing, learning, having fun and being accepted unconditionally.



She doesnt have the maturity to be able to care for and maintain such a costly investment at any rate, and they will drive her mad being stuck to her scalp!



Why dont you (although i dont condone it at her age) just grow her hair and get a pair of straighteners to use on it as it grows out? There are better ways to manage the situation. No offence.



My 6 year old daughter wants hair extentions?

Well, there is a thing called a straightner. But dont put exstentions in hair!! I would love to have curly hair! my hair so straight, but has little curl to it. Use a perm to straighten her hair if she wants straight hair. let it grow out a little to use the straightner. I read a story like this once, It's call "Miss Understanding" by Stephanie Lessing, a girl had red curly hair that stuck out like a clown. Any ways visti your stylist/salon, they'd def. know what to do. Best of luck!



My 6 year old daughter wants hair extentions?

You are her mother you can stop her if you want although u will make her feel sad.The best thing to do by my opinion is the followings:



1.you can straighten her hair with a blow dryer make sure it has a comb on it in low heat. it will look much longer cause the curls will loosen but always use a ''heat protective serum'' before that.



2.If you want extensions again then let the hair dresser braid the synthetic /natural hair a little on your daughters hair then leave the rest hair free ,then curl it let her add hair only on the back side to look longer .you don't need to full up her hair( i think the hairstyle is called pick and drop braid) Dont let them make the braids to tight otherwise the hair will break i think this type of extension is more safe than weave in or the glue one.



3.let her now that she's unique and everyone loves her such as she is and tell her to not feel inferiority because of short hair I'm a teen and i had the same problem and i overcome it but as time goes i know and i hope that she will become use to herself too



It's better to not do extension because of her age but if she truly can't stay without it what can i say?



Good luck

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